It doesn't help that I'm bad with confrontation, although my method for dealing with that can be pretty hilarious. Just recently I wrote a comment going, "I just wanted to let you know that I have a problem with the administration of this community because of XYZ and that's why I won't be participating," and then I never went to the community again and when I got a response I immediately archived it without reading it. But sometimes I can't just archive it, or it's on my journal etc, so instead I... let it sit in my inbox for two weeks without reading it.

So, yeah. I won't become avoidant and let things build up. After I finish commenting to you guys I'll have like 5 things in my inbox. And I want it to stay that way!